By Mimi Pollack
April 28, 2019 (La Jolla) - Whenever I hear of an organization whose purpose is to build bridges of communication, I want to find out more. I was invited to attend the Sunday Seder of the San Diego chapter of the Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom, an organization of Muslim and Jewish women, which was held at the Lawrence Family JCC. It proved to be a positive experience.
The national Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom was co-founded in 2010 by Sheryl Olitzky after she returned from a trip to Poland that had a profound effect on her. Together with Atiya Aftab, Olitzky decided to form a group that would fight hate and negative stereotypes and promote a better understanding between Jewish and Muslim women. Today there are over 165 chapters with about 3,000 members and a total reach of about 7,000 Jewish and Muslim women. Their philosophy has resonated with many and more to come.
Here in San Diego, one of the leaders of the local chapter is Eliza Slavet. When asked what motivated her to begin the San Diego chapter, this is what she replied. “The day after the 2016 election, I woke up to the fact that I needed to do something to respond to the political divides/hatreds. While I support local, national, and international organizations, I wanted to do something that would make use of my past interests/work in academia— Jewish Studies, Religious Studies, etc.— so I began looking for ways to get involved with interfaith activism/community-building in San Diego. I also wanted to commiserate with my Muslim friends, but quickly realized that I did not really have (m)any such friends. Meanwhile, I stumbled across the website for the Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom and looked for local versions but did not find any. On a whim, I set up a Facebook group and called it “Muslim and Jewish Sisterhood of San Diego” (or something like that) and began adding friends who I thought might be interested, including a few secular Muslim friends/acquaintances. I started to attend events at the Islamic Center of San Diego— both to learn about what sorts of actions were already in process and to connect with Muslims as friends/neighbors. As I met people along the way, I made little flyers and handed them to people at the grocery store, at the gym, at the Islamic Center and beyond.”
Slavet is a good person to lead the local chapter as she has her PhD in Literature from UC San Diego and is currently studying to be a rabbi. She wrote a book called Racial Fever and the Jewish Question (Fordham University Press, 2009). She decided to study to become a rabbi when she realized that she was limited in her own understanding of Judaism. As she says, “I realized that I felt very limited in my own understanding/practice of Judaism from the inside out. I had studied Judaism mostly from “the outside looking in”— in other words, I studied ABOUT Judaism/Jewish history rather than studying Jewish traditions/texts from the perspective of an active participant.” In December 2016, her friend/mentor, Rabbi Phil Graubart, former spiritual leader of Congregation Beth El in La Jolla, encouraged her to consider rabbinic school, and the rest is history.